How Does Autism Affect Working Moms?

Today, autism affects one out of 88 children, according to the Autism Society.

Lauren McBride, a collections representative for QBE First, and her husband Kevin have two children: Hunter, age five, and Brendon, age two.

Hunter was diagnosed with autism when he was three.

“Hunter’s autism affects pretty much every area of our lives,” says McBride.

If Hunter doesn’t sleep, they’re up all night; if he gets up at 3am, so do they.

“Probably three nights a week I go to work on four hours of sleep,” McBride says.

She doesn’t think much of it – it’s their normal. “I just do it. You do things you didn’t know you could do.”

Children diagnosed with autism face a variety of challenges, including verbal and non-verbal social interaction.

For mothers of autistic children, the ever-anticipated “I love you,” is often delayed.

So, for McBride, that it makes it that more special when Hunter communicates.

“When he says ‘I love you,’ that’s three words put together from a child who doesn’t speak in sentences,” relishes McBride.

“You don’t know if he understands what it means, but it’s sweet hearing it.”

She shares some words of wisdom for parents of children with special needs:

“Do the best you can to give them the love and support they need. Be a fierce advocate for your child – fight for what you know they need.”

She advises building a support network.

Talk with people. “Usually everybody knows either someone in similar circumstances, or someone in a field who could help you. You can share information and ideas.”

Bonus PINK Link: Balancing Adoption and Work.

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By Sarah Grace Alexander

“I know God will not give me anything I can’t handle. I just wish He didn’t trust me so much.” Mother Teresa