The New Age of Domestic Abuse in 2014
In “Fight Fair” Part 1, PINK showed you the statistics of domestic abuse in the United States and why cases like Ray Rice make domestic abuse everyone’s battle. Domestic violence has become a trending topic in modern media, but those numbers have to account for more than just what we see on television. We often forget that celebrities are people too, so they are no exception to statistics and censuses. So what action do we take at home to fight these numbers? First and foremost, knowledge is power. Domestic violence prevention advocate (and my amazing mother) Desonuia Johnson-Wise served on the board of Hope Harbour battered women and children’s shelter. I was ten years old at the time. Now at the age of twenty, I realize how imperative education is to ending these assaults on women. Desonuia teaches us how to recognize the red flags of abuse before anyone starts swinging. Share this with other women (and men) to expose potential abuse and abusers :
These red flags may seem like they’re not a big deal, but over time they equal an entirely new animal. In the new age of feminism in 2014, one would hope that women would not tolerate being hit. However, 2014 is also the new age of cynicism, and people forget that abuse is not only physical, it is mental. The abuser breaks down self-esteem with these red flags, so by the time a woman is actually hit or punched, they already feel they deserve it. The reason women still find themselves in abusive situations is because the red flags are not talked about in our communities.
So we teach the red flags, we blast the abusers on Twitter, and women are still battered. Now what? Another issue of domestic abuse is that it is underreported. Getting mad at an abuser on social media raises awareness, which is also good, but the change begins when the public takes action. If you see a woman being publicly battered, report it. If you are an abuser, turn yourself in and get the help you need. Teach boys to respect girls. And never allow children of the opposite sex to get violent with each other. Encourage women and girls from the start to get and education and build their own lives so they are not dependent and have to eat a partner’s dirt just to survive. Start with the woman in the mirror, and let’s mobilize to make the fight fair.
By Jessica Wise
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